So I was seeing this series few minutes ago, funny how it is unrelated to “Change”. I decided to put my data on and just browse through social media and it occurred to me that I have really changed a lot. What I used to like, or what I used to like doing and many more has changed. Indeed change is the only constant thing in life.

I haven’t written in a while and inasmuch as a lot keeps pooping in my head to write I just didn’t have that zeal to write at all and I do not know why. But right now that I am writing the force is beyond my control.

I have realized what I liked and desired as a teenager or a very young adult is very different from now, I don’t know if I would shift the blame to becoming older because in this my late 20s I feel like a lot of change has really happened in my life. What I have desired when I was much more younger and a very young adult I desire most of it no more. Earlier today I was speaking with my friend and I made mention of “as I dey like this ehh, I no fit do long distant relationship again oh, like I no go see this person for over one month. Haaaa, I no fit do am oh, e beta make I just dey my dey know say I just dey” the sentences that happened before and after this, I’m sorry I won’t talk about it. Thinking about it now I realize change has happened to me because what made me make that statement, in the past I used to be of the opinion that why can’t two people stay in a long distance relationship and that constant communication should be okay to keep their feelings burning for each other but right now, change has happen to my thinking.

How I used to love to look change has happened, as a very very young adult I could never step out without having make up on my face, I used to feel I was ugly and I needed to enhance the little beauty left but here I am in my late 20s doing without makeup even if I still love my red lipstick💄. How about in dressing, a lot has changed for the better and probably for the worst a little. When I say for the worst, I mean I’m seriously considering having a tattoo something once upon a time I said “I’m ok with piercings but will never have a tattoo”. My darlings, never say never.

How about my relationship with God, I feel closer and better with him. I feel I’m beginning to understand God better without anyone forcing or pushing me to it. I experience God personally. I easily reach out to him no matter my situation. I remember telling someone “do you know I pray over/about anything” even in my bad choices that looked good to me I pray to come out of it whole.

Even with my dealings with people, change has occurred. I have come to understand that I can still be civil with a person without hate or dislike and we could have very good conversations. Indeed, change has happened.

What’s my plenty write up about, I’m just here to remind us that change is the only constant thing in life. Never say never (coming from a good place). Just be open minded that what you think you would never like/hate, you can with time. You might not even remember it immediately but Change happens.

Remember CHANGE IS THE ONLY CONSTANT THING IN LIFE.